Parents’ expectations during the first month of preschool often include a mix of excitement, nerves, and a lot of questions, especially if it’s your child’s first time in a structured learning environment. It’s natural to wonder how they’ll adjust, what the day will look like, and how you can best support them. At First Congregational Preschool in Meriden, CT, we work closely with families to make this transition a positive one – for both children and their caregivers.

What to Expect Emotionally and Socially

One of the biggest parts of the adjustment involves your child’s emotions and social development. During the first few weeks, it’s common to experience:

• Separation anxiety at drop-off
• Mood swings or changes in behavior
• Shyness or hesitation around new faces
• Gradual signs of independence as they become more familiar with routines

Understanding parents’ expectations during the first month of preschool can help ease concerns. Most children start to settle in by the second or third week as they bond with teachers, engage in activities, and begin forming friendships. Our staff provides gentle guidance and support to help each child feel safe and secure.

Tips to Support Your Child’s Transition

Supporting your child at home can make a big difference. Here are some practical ways to help:

1. Keep mornings calm and predictable
   Avoid rushing—consistency helps children feel in control.
2. Create a quick and positive goodbye routine
   A short hug and a smile builds trust and confidence.
3. Talk about preschool with curiosity and excitement
   Ask about favorite activities, songs, or what they ate for snacks.
4. Stick to a routine at home
   Regular meals and bedtimes help children feel grounded.
5. Check in with teachers regularly
   Stay informed about your child’s behavior, progress, and areas where they may need more support.
   Click here for expert advice on easing separation anxiety and supporting your child’s emotional health

Common Challenges and How to Handle Them

Even with preparation, some bumps in the road are normal. Parents’ expectations during the first month of preschool should include being flexible and understanding that adjustment looks different for every child. Here are a few common challenges you might notice:

• Your child may seem more tired or irritable than usual
• Sleep routines might shift as their day becomes more stimulating
• Some children resist going back after the first few days of excitement
• Others may withdraw or act out in unfamiliar settings

These are temporary and often resolve as your child feels more at home in the preschool environment. At First Congregational Preschool, we work closely with families to monitor each child’s comfort level and offer personalized strategies when needed.

The Power of Routine

Routine plays a huge role in helping children feel safe. Our preschool day includes a mix of play, learning, meals, outdoor time, and quiet rest. When families mirror this consistency at home, especially with sleep and meal schedules – children adapt more quickly.

For additional support and information, parents may find the following resources helpful:

• Zero to Three – Separation Anxiety Tips
  This resource provides expert guidance on managing separation anxiety, a common experience during the first month of preschool.
  https://www.zerotothree.org/resources/series/separation-anxiety 
• Nemours Kids Health – Helping Your Child Adjust to Preschool
  This site offers practical advice on easing the transition to preschool, fostering social skills, and establishing healthy routines.
  https://kidshealth.org/en/parents/adjust-to-preschool.html 

Why Families Trust First Congregational Preschool in Meriden, CT

At First Congregational Preschool, we understand that parents’ expectations during the first month of preschool go beyond just academics. You want your child to be happy, safe, nurtured, and supported, and we deliver just that.

Here’s what makes our program stand out:

• Caring, experienced teachers who prioritize emotional growth
• A curriculum built around curiosity, creativity, and early learning skills
• Open communication between staff and parents
• A safe and welcoming environment where every child is seen and celebrated

We’re here to help your child thrive from day one. To learn more about our preschool program or to schedule a tour, visit our website.